Conflicts in marriage are inevitable. The question is not if we have them but what do we do with them?
There are several ways in which we can resolve conflicts in marriage:
1. Attend to the problem as soon as possible.
Some couples ignore the conflicts hoping it will go away. But conflicts are like termites. The longer you leave them,the more they multiply. Instead of waiting, you address the problem immediately.
2. Communicate to see the other side.
Good communication between couples helps them understand each other better. In this case, you will be able to understand the other side of your partner.
3. Selflessness.
Put your spouse's needs above your own.
Remember that the root of every martial conflict is "Self first" and the solution is "Spouse first".
4. Reconciliation.
This is the most important part of conflicts.
Swallow your pride and reconcile with each other. Reconciliation shows how much you love the marriage and how much you are committed to it.
5. Reunion and Commitment.